Showing posts with label self discipline. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self discipline. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Motivating Others = Driving others towards higher achievement.


We excel in life as a group,  individually we are one drop, but together we are an ocean.....


Motivating Others = Driving others towards higher achievement.


Yesterday we discussed the 5A model for motivation (http://hunt-for-motivation.blogspot.com/2011/01/motivation-drive-towards-doing.html) today lets talk about the 9 Tactics that can help motivate people around us  and how they fit into the 5A's 

1) Appreciation (recognition, acknowledgement, respect etc)

a.   Recognition  Acknowledging people on all the good they have done, motivate them to repeat the same.
b.   Trust  - Show faith in people and they will move mountains to maintain your faith in them.
c.   Challenge  - Ask people to do, what no body has done before. Word it right, and watch them reach their zenith

2) Authority (Power, influence, control etc )

a.    Direction and Communication As humans we don’t want to move out of our comfort zone, hence a comprehensive direction will make us feel in control and move us forward.
b.   Growth Opportunity – We want to move up the ladder, show us the opportunity to advance and then see how we beat your expectations.

3) Avoiding Pain “internal to self” ( Internal sense of duty, Philanthropy, accountability, freedom of choice, Personal Challenge etc)

a.   Pleasure or Consequences or Personal stake Pleasurable rewards move people, I personally don’t believe in  threats, at it brings a sour flavor in the relationship.  Let people do, because they want to do it, rather than they want to avoid pain. As humans, we have two ways to deal with one another: Reason or force. Every human interaction falls into one of those two categories, without exception. In a truly moral and civilized society, people exclusively interact through persuation. Force should be the last resort in social interaction, as force leads to injustice that leads to most of the ills in society.
b.   Freedom of choice and deadlinesPeople with high internal accountability, work the best against a deadline that they have set for themselves. Also these people generally work best on their own ideas (freedom of choice)

4) Affluence (Wealth, prosperity, income etc) 
a. IncentivesJ

5) Association (Being part of a group etc) 
a. Team – Camaraderie help bring the best out of people.


Please feel free to add any other tactic that i may have missed  

Monday, January 17, 2011

Motivation = Drive towards doing something


Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself. It does not matter where you have been, what matters is where you are going, what are you becoming.....

Motivation = Drive towards doing something.

Today lets look at the “Whys” behind motivation i.e. “why do we do the things we do?” or “Why we make a certain decision?” or “Why are we driven towards a certain direction?”

To answer the “Why” lets look at what motivates an average human?  I call it the 5A of Motivation


Appreciation (recognition, acknowledgement, respect etc)
Authority or Achievement (Power, influence, control etc )
Avoiding Pain “internal to self” ( Internal sense of duty, Philanthropy, accountability, freedom of choice etc)
Affluence  (Wealth, prosperity, income etc) 
Association (Part of a group etc) 


Depending on the day, mood, historical perspective, we give higher weight to one of the above “A” and make a decision that leads us towards it.

Please feel free to add…..

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Time and Focus are zero sum quantities. Spend them on things that matter...

Time has more value than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time


People generally ask me how can they better utilize their time, they are asking for a tool or an organizer that can help them better manage their time. Some friends of mine even went ahead to buy expensive smart phones that had great organizing abilities, but still they complain of lack of time.

I always tell my friends, before they go and use a tool, they have to be sure of what they want in life. My philosophy of time management is

“ Time spent towards an objective is time well spent, everything else is wasted”

To explain, if your objective for the day is to relax by watching TV, then all the time you spent watching TV and relaxing was time well spent. However, the time you spent in responding to official emails was waste of time, given that it was not part of the objective.


So take a day off, think on “Who you want to become, where do you want to reach” and then jot down all the steps required to reach those goals.  All the time you spent marching towards your goal will be time well spent. Daily analysis of where you spent your time, will help  in prioritizing.

Take a day off and think…… who you want to become and where you want to reach……. share with us also so that we also get motivated  J